How to do your best work, reframe life's bullshit, and stop making your happiness hostage to outcomes.
Maria Semple is the bestselling author of Today Will Be Different, Where'd You Go, Bernadette, and This One Is Mine. Before writing fiction, Maria wrote for TV. Her newest book is called Go Gentle.
In this episode we talk about:
Cognitive reframing tools to shift your mindsetÂ
Maria's daily Stoic routine
The limits of Stoicism
What to do when mediating gives you anxiety
The danger of "baited bounties"Â
How to "get shit done" with non-attachment
Using fantasy as a coping mechanism
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