Passion Struck with John R. Miles

Why do good companies lose their humanity? In this episode of Passion Struck, John R. Miles sits down with entrepreneur, author, and Lean Startup creator Eric Ries to explore a growing crisis hiding in plain sight: why so many people no longer trust the institutions that shape their lives. From global corporations and banks to everyday organizations, many entities begin with a clear mission to serve but gradually drift away from the core values that made them meaningful in the first place.

Drawing from his groundbreaking new book, Incorruptible: Why Good Companies Go Bad and How Great Companies Stay Great, Eric explains how mission-driven organizations become vulnerable to "financial gravity"—the powerful systemic force that slowly pulls leaders away from long-term value creation and toward short-term extraction. Together, John and Eric examine why trust is the most valuable asset an organization can possess, how successful companies lose their soul, and what leaders can do to build institutions that remain aligned with their purpose for generations.

Through the lens of real-world stories involving Costco, HEB, FedMart, Silicon Valley Bank, Walmart, Microsoft, and Amazon, this conversation reveals why organizational trust is eroding across society and what it takes to create companies that people genuinely believe in.

In this episode, you will learn:
The hidden force of financial gravity and how it quietly reshapes organizational behavior.
Why organizations routinely lose their humanity as they become more successful.
The tragic story of Sol Price, FedMart, and the governance secrets that protect Costco today.
The critical operational difference between shareholder primacy and mission primacy.
Why Silicon Valley Bank’s collapse offers vital lessons about corporate purpose and integrity.
The concept of the invisible leader and why shared purpose shapes behavior more powerfully than hierarchy. Practical blueprints for founders, executives, entrepreneurs, and leaders who want to build organizations that endure without losing their soul.

Passion Struck is the #1 Health and Wellness Podcast and personal growth podcast dedicated to helping people live intentionally, unlock human potential, and create lives filled with meaning, purpose, and mattering.

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Learn More About Eric Ries: https://www.ericries.com

Get Eric's New Book: Incorruptible: Why Good Companies Go Bad and How Great Companies Stay Great

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Children’s Book — You Matter, Luma: https://youmatterluma.com/
Substack: https://www.theignitedlife.net/

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The Passion Struck podcast is for educational and entertainment purposes only. The views and opinions expressed do not necessarily reflect those of Passion Struck or its affiliates. This podcast is not a substitute for professional medical or psychological advice.

In this episode of Passion Struck, John R. Miles pulls back the curtain on the final phase of personal transformation, drawing on the timeless narrative of The Shawshank Redemption, behavioral coach Eric Zimmer, and Say It Now founder Walter Green to confront a challenging human truth: why your greatest struggles are never meant to be private secrets. We live in a hyper-optimized culture that treats growth like a localized fortress—focusing heavily on our own routines, boundaries, and self-preservation. This intense focus on individual performance often leaves us isolated, trapped on an endless corporate scoreboard while forgetting that true human flourishing requires an outward pivot toward generative contribution.

Through a profound exploration of Andy Dufresne’s quiet prison library campaign and the three major chapters of human development, John reveals how turning adversity into contribution can permanently break through the isolation that lines our daily lives. This episode explores why massive lifestyle overhauls fail due to biological friction, how a series of small, low-resistance actions build invisible momentum until a little becomes a lot, and how to practice the art of specific, living gratitude before it is too late. John models this vulnerability through his own story of unexpressed appreciation for a high school teammate, offering a gentle roadmap to put a clear flashlight on our closest relationships today.

In this episode, you’ll learn:
Why massive life overhauls trigger biological friction and cause an endless cycle of starting over.
How Andy Dufresne used low-resistance actions to turn a brutal prison environment into a generative space.
The three life chapters—knowing yourself, making yourself, and becoming yourself—and how to navigate them.
The hidden trap of the making chapter and why elite success often leaves high performers feeling isolated and lonely.
Why our culture routinely postpones deep validation for the funeral and how to permanently break that custom.
The profound psychological difference between generic compliments and radical, explicit relational specificity.
How to tell someone they matter using a simple, three-step practice for turning outward.
Why the human mind craves outcome-independent giving and how to let go of needing a specific response.
How to use your scars as a clear mirror to ignite a compounding ripple effect of hope across your community.
If you’ve ever struggled with optimization fatigue, the isolating weight of professional achievement, or a nagging feeling that you are hoarding your hard-won wisdom inside a quiet fortress of self-preservation, this episode offers an honest, deeply human roadmap to turn your suffering into a living legacy.

Passion Struck is the #1 alternative health and personal growth podcast dedicated to helping people live intentionally, unlock human potential, and create lives filled with meaning, purpose, and mattering.

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Connect with John
Pre-Order The Mattering Effect: https://matteringeffect.com/
Book John to Speak: https://johnrmiles.com/speaking/
Keynotes, books, podcast, and resources: https://linktr.ee/John_R_Miles
Children’s Book — You Matter, Luma: https://youmatterluma.com/
Substack: https://www.theignitedlife.net/

Support the Movement: https://startmattering.com/. Every human deserves to feel seen, valued, and like they matter. Wear it. Live it. Show it.

Disclaimer

The Passion Struck podcast is for educational and entertainment purposes only. The views and opinions expressed do not necessarily reflect those of Passion Struck or its affiliates. This podcast is not a substitute for professional medical or psychological advice.

In this episode of Passion Struck, John R. Miles sits down with Walter Green, author, mentor, and former corporate CEO, to confront a universal human truth: why you need to say it now rather than regret it later. We live in a fast-paced, performance-driven culture where we routinely postpone deep expressions of gratitude, leaving a profound emotional deficit in our closest relationships. This hesitation forces millions of people to walk through life feeling completely invisible, only for their loved ones to finally articulate their value during a funeral when it is too late for them to hear it.

Through his global initiative, the Say It Now movement, and his foundational book, This Is the Moment, Walter reveals how replacing traditional, posthumous eulogies with living tributes can fundamentally heal our relationships. This conversation explores the hidden grief of unspoken gratitude, the vital difference between being loved for what you do versus being valued for who you are, and how to move past social awkwardness to communicate specific appreciation while the people we care about are still here to hear it.In this episode, you’ll learn:
Why we routinely postpone our deepest expressions of appreciation and how to break that loop.
The profound psychological difference between being loved for a role and feeling like your existence truly matters.
How Walter Green transitioned from a 25-year corporate career to launching a global movement of human connection.
The anatomy of a living tribute and how to celebrate the people you love while they are still alive.
Why the human brain craves relational safety and how unspoken gratitude creates a hidden, long-term grief.
Practical ways to move past social awkwardness and articulate specific, unconditional appreciation.
Lessons on performance, leadership, and authentic validation from Walter’s time lecturing at Wharton.
How a single, intentional cross-country journey to visit 44 life mentors sparked a global ripple effect.
How to step off the daily performance scoreboard and find true significance beyond what you produce.
Actionable steps to cultivate deeply meaningful relationships and permanently eliminate the prospect of deathbed regrets.
If you’ve ever struggled with unspoken regrets, the weight of a busy schedule pulling you away from loved ones, or a nagging feeling that your worth is tied only to your daily utility, this episode offers an honest, deeply human roadmap toward authentic connection and mutual validation.

Passion Struck is the #1 alternative health and personal growth podcast dedicated to helping people live intentionally, unlock human potential, and create lives filled with meaning, purpose, and mattering.

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Full Show Notes: https://passionstruck.com/feel-like-they-matter-walter-green/

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Learn More About Walter and the Movement: https://www.sayitnow.org

Connect with John
Pre-Order The Mattering Effect: https://matteringeffect.com/
Book John to Speak: https://johnrmiles.com/speaking/
Keynotes, books, podcast, and resources: https://linktr.ee/John_R_Miles
Children’s Book — You Matter, Luma: https://youmatterluma.com/
Substack: https://www.theignitedlife.net/

Support the Movement: https://startmattering.com/. Every human deserves to feel seen, valued, and like they matter. Wear it. Live it. Show it.

Disclaimer

The Passion Struck podcast is for educational and entertainment purposes only. The views and opinions expressed do not necessarily reflect those of Passion Struck or its affiliates. This podcast is not a substitute for professional medical or psychological advice.

In this episode of Passion Struck, John R. Miles sits down with Eric Zimmer, behavioral coach, author, and host of the award-winning podcast The One You Feed, to discuss why so many people struggle to maintain consistent habits, the hidden psychological exhaustion of constant self-reinvention, and the science behind his upcoming book, How a Little Becomes a Lot. We live in a culture obsessed with radical life overhauls and hyper-optimization, yet this big-bang approach to personal growth often triggers burnout, friction, and an endless cycle of starting over.

Through his extensive work in behavioral psychology, Eric reveals a truth that changes how we approach self-improvement: lasting transformation occurs through low-resistance actions consistently taken in the same direction over time. This conversation explores how to navigate the dry stretch of the long middle, neutralize the emotional drama of a setback using the renew framework, and shift away from a harsh internal critic toward a neuroscience-backed habit of self-compassion.

In this episode, you’ll learn:
Why massive self-improvement overhauls often lead to burnout and failure
How to design low-resistance actions that bypass your brain's natural friction
The psychology of the long middle and how to maintain momentum when progress feels invisible
How to distinguish between habits of behavior and automated habits of thought
The five steps of the renew framework to recover quickly from any routine disruption
Why neutralizing emotional drama after a setback is the key to rebuilding self-trust
The biological reason why self-criticism paralyzes growth while self-compassion accelerates it
How to cultivate still points throughout your day to manage modern anxiety and uncertainty
The danger of weaponizing your suffering and confusing control with true emotional freedom
Practical ways to stop treating your worth like a daily performance scoreboard
If you’ve ever struggled with optimization fatigue, perfectionism, self-sabotage, a loud internal critic, or the frustrating cycle of constantly restarting your routines, this episode offers a practical, human-centered roadmap toward sustainable growth and genuine self-trust.

Passion Struck is the #1 alternative health and personal growth podcast dedicated to helping people live intentionally, unlock human potential, and create lives filled with meaning, purpose, and mattering.

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Full Show Notes: https://passionstruck.com/small-changes-create-lasting-transformation/
Get the Companion Workbook: https://www.theignitedlife.net/p/why-so-many-people-keep-starting

Learn More About Eric: https://www.oneyoufeed.net

Connect with John
Pre-Order The Mattering Effect: https://matteringeffect.com/
Book John to Speak: https://johnrmiles.com/speaking/
Keynotes, books, podcast, and resources: https://linktr.ee/John_R_Miles
Children’s Book — You Matter, Luma: https://youmatterluma.com/
Substack: https://www.theignitedlife.net/

Support the Movement: https://startmattering.com/. Every human deserves to feel seen, valued, and like they matter. Wear it. Live it. Show it.

Disclaimer

The Passion Struck podcast is for educational and entertainment purposes only. The views and opinions expressed do not necessarily reflect those of Passion Struck or its affiliates. This podcast is not a substitute for professional medical or psychological advice.

In this episode of Passion Struck, John R. Miles reveals why achieving everything you ever wanted can still leave you feeling profoundly empty—and what real, radical transformation actually requires.

Most of us treat personal growth like a home renovation project: we try to stack better habits, tighter routines, and sharper skills on top of the same old foundation. But true change—the kind that rewires who you are at the core—doesn’t work through simple addition. It demands dissolution.

In part three of our solo series, Forged in Adversity, John explores the hidden architecture of profound human change through raw, unvarnished conversations with Amy Purdy and Blake Mycoskie, weaving in the timeless, cautionary, and triumphant lessons from The Count of Monte Cristo.

Together, their stories expose a critical truth: Healing is not about patching up or returning to your old self. It is an alchemical process of burning away the armor that once saved you so that something entirely new can emerge.

In this episode, you will learn:
The Modification Myth: Why trying to fix your life with new habits on a broken foundation is doomed to fail.
The Scoreboard Trap: How to stop tying your inherent worth to external achievements and performance.
The "Enough" Realization: How Blake Mycoskie transcended the hollow trap of "having it all."
Bounce Forward vs. Bounce Back: Why Amy Purdy’s philosophy of innovation is the key to surviving any crisis.
The Alchemy of Suffering: How to stop rearranging the furniture in a burning house and allow true transmutation.
Radical Identity: How to move from performance-based value to the liberating truth: I am enough simply because I exist.

If you’ve ever succeeded on paper but felt hollow inside, lost your identity after a major crisis, or sensed that you are being asked to dismantle your old life to make room for something new—this episode will give you the vocabulary and the hope to step directly into the fire.

Passion Struck is the #1 alternative health and personal growth podcast dedicated to helping you live intentionally, unlock your human potential, and create a life filled with meaning, purpose, and mattering.

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Full Show Notes & Resources: https://passionstruck.com/how-to-achieve-personal-transmutation/
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Connect with John
Pre-Order The Mattering Effect: https://matteringeffect.com/
Book John to Speak: https://johnrmiles.com/speaking/
Keynotes, books, podcast, and resources: https://linktr.ee/John_R_Miles
Children’s Book — You Matter, Luma: https://youmatterluma.com/
Substack: https://www.theignitedlife.net/

Support the Movement: https://startmattering.com/. Every human deserves to feel seen, valued, and like they matter. Wear it. Live it. Show it.

Disclaimer

The Passion Struck podcast is for educational and entertainment purposes only. The views and opinions expressed do not necessarily reflect those of Passion Struck or its affiliates. This podcast is not a substitute for professional medical or psychological advice.