Why does romance in movies so often feel fake — even when everything looks right on screen?
In this episode of Indie Film Podcast, Chuck and Victoria unpack why on-screen romance frequently falls flat, how filmmakers get trapped by bad movie tropes, and why intensity is so often mistaken for real intimacy. This isn’t a rom-com takedown, and it’s definitely not a “how to write romance” lecture. It’s a conversation about storytelling, film craft, and set realities that affect every genre.
We talk about:
Why romance is often shoehorned into stories where it doesn’t belong
How familiar tropes quietly sabotage otherwise strong films
The difference between emotional intensity and genuine intimacy on screen
Why intimacy coordinators exist (and how they actually contribute to storytelling)
How set safety, trust, and clear communication lead to more believable performances
Why indie films are uniquely positioned to do romance better than Hollywood
Whether you’re writing, directing, producing, or editing an indie film, this episode is about recognizing when something “doesn’t play”, and understanding why audiences feel it immediately, even if they can’t explain it.
A craft-focused conversation for filmmakers who want their stories (romantic or not) to feel honest, grounded, and real.
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Show Links:
Faking It with Ariel and Morgan: https://www.fakingitthepod.com/
Faking It (YouTube): https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC_6QvzWCYmnNusquGAynhOw
Faking It (Insta): https://www.instagram.com/fakingitthepod/
Faking It (Spotify): https://open.spotify.com/show/32YQgLGp8G6YCRPcuYCAnT
Filmmaker of the Week, Karin Trachtenberg: https://www.karintrachtenberg.com/directing
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